Thursday, February 11, 2021

I’m Done Policing My Kids

When I first saw the campaign to  #defundthepolice, i thought it was absolutely insane. I thought that this time, the world has really gone mad. True, there are some bad police officers who need to be removed, just like there are some bad doctors and some bad teachers... But most of them are just doing their job to keep this world safe! This planet would be a jungle if not for the police enforcing the law, and tragically, we’ve already seen the dangers of this campaign playing out in cities all around the US. It’s a frightening idea.

I felt especially disappointed to see this news because these past few months I was trying so hard to be positive. I believed that all this quarantine time taught humanity something about Gd and about what’s really important in life. That it made us better people, that it made this world a better place. It suddenly hit me that while that may have been true for many us in our safe Moshiachdik “Ark”, that’s not what’s been going on for the world at large. It now seemed obvious that all this time “locked up” at home, only brought out the worst in a lot of people. Instead of this pandemic leading us straight into the true and complete Geulah (Redemption) as I was expecting, it seemed it brought us deeper into the galus, (exile) Gd forbid. 

But I’m so grateful to some of our fellow Chassidim like Rabbi Wolf and many others, who have not lost their Geulah vision and focus, for even a moment. They reminded me that if we just listen to the Rebbe and “open up our eyes” to the inside story, we will clearly see the Geulah, and it’s actually so cool and exciting! It doesn’t take any wisdom or talent to see darkness and galus... What takes wisdom and talent is to see the light hidden within the darkness, to see the beauty that’s hiding within the ugly outer shell. And that’s the gift the Rebbe gave us.

As shown on the latest JEM video, it is our own Rebbe who came up with the idea of reallocating police funds! It’s the Rebbe who said that instead of spending crazy amounts of money on prisons, we should be investing our money in moral education so that people won’t commit crimes in the first place... It’s so encouraging to see that the world is finally taking the Rebbe’s advice seriously! 

And it’s the Rebbe who taught us in the famous sicha of Shoftim 1991, that the command to appoint policeman only applies to Galus... And that we are now beginning the era of Geulah, when all policemen will be replaced with advisors! 

Whether the liberals realize it or not, it seems that they are actually catching on and crying out for Moshiach! They are demanding that Geulah become a reality! They are simply not willing to be controlled by police anymore. They don’t want anyone to be forced into complying, they want people to be helped and coached into complying... The message is actually really awesome! 

From this perspective, I love the idea of defunding the police! I’m enjoying hearing that the left believes that it’s not just a fantasy. I’m happy to see that so many people have faith that it’s possible to eventually eliminate the need for police altogether. 

This is part of the prophecy of Geulah unfolding! 

Of course, I’m not so naive to think that all those fighting to defund the police have altruistic intentions or that they know how to reallocate in a safe, gradual, and practical way... But if the Rebbe can see the positive side in Korach’s argument, in Miriam bas Bilga, in the hippie movement, and in countless others, then we can do the same. 

I realized that Geulah is a process. It’s not necessarily about the need for police disappearing in one magical moment. It’s about a gradual intolerance to force and control that we’ve been seeing more and more over the last few decades. It simply doesn’t work anymore! The era of policing is over. 

The truth is that I’ve been noticing this with my kids for a long time already, but I didn’t fully understand it till now.

I used to feel so vulnerable when I realized that I can’t “control” my kids. I felt so frustrated that there is no way I can “force” even my 4 year old to do what I want him to do. I would set a mental reminder to myself that negativity just doesn’t work with them! That it’s a waste of my time and energy to go that route. That it’s not only often ineffective, but also counterproductive. 

But then I would forget and try again.

But now, I realize that it’s not just me, and it’s not just my kids. It’s our whole Geulah generation. We are just DONE with the old way of policing - of control and force and fear and threats and punishment. In today’s generation, even raising our voices or showing any degree of anger or disappointment is like hitting! Nothing good will come out of it! 

The ONLY thing that works now is positivity. The only option is to be an ADVISOR to our kids. To love them. To coach them. To educate them. To explain things to them. To make them WANT to listen. To show them how it’s for their own good.  To show them the joy and pleasure in Yiddishkeit. To make them want to daven, want to learn Torah, want to do mitzvos, want to eat healthy, want to clean up, want to sleep on time, want to sleep in their own beds through the night🙏, want to think positive, want to be kind and respectful to others… and the list goes on and on. 

And there is no better role model for this than our Rebbe. 

The Rebbe never told anyone what to do, never scared anyone, never forced anyone. He ONLY advised us. We see this approach  emphasized again and again in the Rebbe’s letters - showing how the Mitzvos are good for us, not only spiritually but also materially. He always explained how even though Torah and mitzvos are a must for their own sake, they are also the channel for all the brachos, and for a good, happy, and satisfying life. 

I wish I knew the answer of how to make this all reality right now in the world at large, but I’m really excited to start by #defundingthepolice in my own home today. To remember that I am done playing policeman for good. That I am no longer ready to invest any of my energy in that direction. To remember that from now on, I am ONLY their loving, understanding, patient, and helpful, advisor and coach. That I am always on their side.

We are taught that Hashem is our shadow, and so I hope that Hashem will be our mirror and give up on using any kind of negativity on us...

And most importantly, that He will finally return our dear Rebbe - our Judge and Advisor, to us like before, in a completely revealed way for everyone, right now, BEFORE this gimmel Tammuz!



Let My People Go



I remember as a little girl, every time we would learn the story of leaving mitzrayim, I could never understand how it was possible that Pharoh was hit with one makkah after the next, but he still didn't learn his lesson and let the Yidden out... 


Each time, he promised he would, and begged Moshe to Daven that the makkah should end, but once it did, he changed his mind and didn't let the Yidden go again.


But as I was telling my kids the parsha last night, I realized that in a way, the Pharoh in us does the same thing today.


Unfortunately this Golus has been filled with so many crazy hardships, (may there be no more!)

And each time, we Daven with all our heart for the makkah to go away - to be healed, to be comforted, to be blessed... 


But somehow, a part of us is still not fully ready to leave this Golus altogether, once and forever.


Sometimes in the hard moments, we really do feel we want Moshiach now, but then, after the "makkah" settles, we forget about how much we need Moshiach, and get comfortable again.


It's as if the Pharoh in us wants the pain and tragedies to go away.. but still doesn't want the Golus itself to go away - just that the Golus shouldn't be so hard.


But the truth is that thank Gd there is no choice - the Golus must end, and it will...


There is no reason to hold on to it any longer;

And no, we don't need any more reminders at all! 

We are ready to be taken out -TODAY!!


לע״נ ר׳ מנחם מאיר בן ר׳ חיים משה יהודההכהן בלוי ע״ה


The Power of Now, Fully Present in the Present

What is the greatest moment of your life? 
This One.

Whomever you’re speaking with now - 
Is *the* most important person in the world for you right now.

Whatever it is you’re busy with now - 
Is *the* most important thing in the world for you right now. 

Wherever you are in the world right now -
Is *exactly* where your shlichus lay right now.

Forget about what was.
Forget about what’s next.

Forget about what’s going on - 
In any other space beyond this dot. 

Forget about what anyone else is doing, 
Or has done, or will do. 

Just be you, 
Just be here, 
Just be now. 
Fully PRESENT in the PRESENT

Don’t be distracted
Don’t multitask -

It’s a waste of time,
And there is NO such thing.

Be fully here,
With all your being - 

With all your *thoughts*, 
With all your *words*, 
With all your *actions*.
(And with all your passion!)

All three.
No less.

Every time. 

Get real.
Get off the fence. 
Just choose. 

In or out.
Here or there. 

Whatever “it” is, 

Even if it’s just a step on the way,
Even if it’s just a means to an end,
Even if it’s just a preparation,
Even if it’s just one tiny detail, 
In just one tiny space,
By just one soul out of millions… 

Give it all you’ve got,
Do it all the way - 

Cuz it MATTERS,
And the whole world depends on it - 

Cuz all time 
is included in THIS moment,
And all space 
is included in THIS dot,
And all Jews 
are included in YOUR soul,
(Including all those who came before you, and all those who will come after you,)

Because the whole world was created JUST FOR YOU,

Which means the whole world is included in YOU, 

Which means that YOU can affect the whole world,

Just by doing YOUR part fully, 
*Right here, right *Now*

You were given the full achrayus,
You were given the full zechus,

Don’t put it on anyone else to bring the Geulah.

Cuz everyone must do their part,

But no one else can do *your* part.

Don’t think *you* don’t count.
Don’t think *this moment* doesn’t count.
Don’t think *your corner* doesn’t count.

Cuz when all of you is invested,
In one place, at one time, 
For one purpose,

That’s you living Geulah.

That’s you being “amitis” and “shleima” - 
That’s you being true, complete, and perfect.

That’s you preparing for the GLOBAL Geulah haamitis vihashleima -
When the whole world will be true, complete, and perfect. 

That’s you getting ready, 
That’s you warming up to it,
That’s you tasting it.

Don’t just wait to be taken to Eretz Yisroel,
CREATE Eretz Yisroel here.

Don’t just wait for the Geulah to come, CREATE Geulah now*

*Cuz what you’ll see then, and what you’ll see there,*
*Is simply the revelation of what you create Now and Here*

It’s ALL in your hands.
And He needs you ALL IN.

May we immediately find ourselves with Moshiach, in Yerushalayim!  

***
The Lubavitcher Rebbe, Sicha Pinchas Nun Alef

Learn From the Willow

Walking home the other day, I saw more masks on the streets than ever before. All I could see were countless pairs of eyes 👀 looking around, and at me..

We’ve all gotten used to it, but it still feels way more more like a movie than real life! 

And I’m thinking, what’s going on? what does all this mean? It’s all so strange.. but there is definitely a message.. what could it be?

And what about the weird symptoms of loss of taste and smell? With Sukkos on our minds,  everyone is joking about the willow branch being ill with corona because it has no taste and no smell.. 

But seriously, what’s it all about?

And I’m thinking..
Weren’t we told long ago that “all the work is done”? That we’ve collectively accomplished more than enough through our Torah and mitzvos, (which are compared to good taste and good smell / similar to mouth and nose) and that all that’s left to do is to “OPEN UP OUR EYES” and see the Redemption? To deepen our awareness? To realize where we stand in history... literally at the end of days... as the Rebbe clearly told us countless times..
And that it’s time to stop running around in circles.. even holy circles of Torah and mitzvos.. because we’re at the finish line and it’s time for the next level UP?!

And what about that WILLOW?
it seems our focus needs to be to learn more from the willow!
Because she has no taste and no smell 
But she also has no ego 
No self pride - 
that separates her from others 
No self serving motives of her own pleasure (behind her service) - 
that would separate her from Hashem.. 

And that makes her the sweetest 
And the most beautiful of all 

Because she feels her own emptiness 
She feels her own lowliness
She feels her own distance 
She feels her own brokenness 
And so she feels a deep yearning ...

for more Torah, for more mitzvos, 
and for a deeper connection with Hashem.. 

And that’s all that’s left to do 

To yearn for the new Torah of Moshiach,
To yearn for the opportunity to keep all 613 mitzvos,
To yearn for the time when we will all see Hashem face to face.. 

To yearn to truly know Him!

And maybe, it’s so likely,
That it’s this awareness, 
Together with this humility, 
this unity, 
and this yearning,
that the willow represents,
that will UNMASK the true intent behind this pandemic ..

And bring about the true and complete Geulah NOW, for the whole entire world!!! 🙏



Adin Even Yisroel AH -

B”H


Thoughtstream...


Another month has passed.

And we’re still here.

How much longer?!


I have nothing to say

And so much to say 

All at once.


Last night I watched Adin Even - Yisrael,

https://youtu.be/m8UrJ08cNKQ

And he’s right, 


It’s almost Elul.

Time to make an accounting, 

Where am I?

Where are we? 


I’m sleeping.

We’re sleeping.

It’s time to wake up.

Not to do -something-

But to do -everything-

To make a revolution! 


We are the Rebbe’s army!

The Rebbe’s soldiers,

What kind of soldier am I?

What kind of army does the Rebbe have?


We’re awesome!

We’re great!

Of course!


But -really-, 

What have I done today?

What could I do?

What must I do? 

To turn over the world!!!

Today!!


Hashem is clearly trying to wake me up!

SO many wake up calls…

And not just me. 


Hashem is trying to wake US up!

It’s GLOBAL right now.


He doesn’t want to hurt us!

He only wants to help us. 

He just wants to wake us up,

So we can bring on the Redemption.


He’s giving us masks 

Cuz He wants to take off His

He’s giving us distancing

Cuz He wants us to get close

 

The world is transforming.


The extent of the world’s transformation - 

Is thanks to our great Rebbe, 


But the fact that we’re still here - 

Is thanks to us…


Only WE can finish the job. 

Which is just about finished.


There’s no time to lose.


Every day lost,

Is lost forever. 

We need Moshiach yesterday.

We need Moshiach today! 


It’s Chof Menachem Av. 

It’s the great day - 

Of the Father of Menachem 


It’s the great month - 

Of the birth of Menachem 


I await Him every day.

Let it be TODAY!


We don’t need to give up our lives 

Like R’ Levi Yitzchak did,

We just need to give up a little bit of sleep,

A little bit of “me”..


To give over our lives,

With happiness and pleasure.


The Farbrengen* continued.. 

“The Rebbe gave the mashal of the atom bomb..”

“It must be this power exists for good”

We can each have a huge impact

We can each change the whole world..


Be a bomb,

Set off an explosion


Be contagious

Set off a chain reaction


Of goodness!

Of Geulah!

With just one more “movement.” 


You can tip the scale.

With joy

And with a happy heart.


***


Adin Even - Yisroel

He’s right,

But he’s also not!


We’ve done enough! 

We’re good enough! 

We’ve had enough! 

Enough is enough! 


We already won.

We DID succeed.

The praise is real,

Hashem IS pleased! 


We’re only commanded to open our eyes, 

And SEE.


ראה אנכי נותן לכם היום ברכה


We’ve all been blind

But we can still SEE


The Tanya that’s in Braille 

Is also for me 


No more of just hearing!

No more of just believing!


Believing is Seeing.

Learning is Seeing.


Keep learning till we SEE the blessing,


Till we can LITERALLY see 

The True and complete Geulah 

TODAY


With our physical eyes 

And with prophecy! 


“We need to publicize this command, 

To see the Geulah 

With words that come from the heart,

In every place, to every Jew.”


And the Rebbe is speaking to me and to you,

Even if we feel that we can’t recognize it’s true.


Because we too believe it completely inside 

So we can go out and publicize,

Starting with our family members 

Who don’t deserve to suffer 

Just because our brain hasn’t grasped it !


And to speak to all that are surrounding us,

And to every Jew,


And if you try, you’ll succeed,


You WILL influence others, 

Till you will even influence YOURSELF! 


האמנתי כי אדבר - 

I believe because I speak,


BE REAL TILL YOU FEEL REAL!


May we SEE Moshiach NOW!! -


And wake up from this dream of Golus! 


Friday, July 21, 2017

56. Why the Soldier Cried


(As told by Rabbi Avraham Plotkin on chabad.org)

It was in 1967, when the Jewish people reclaimed Jerusalem and reclaimed the sight of the Holy Temple, that the the soldiers arrived at the site of the Western Wall. 
You can imagine that it was a very emotional moment. 
The soldiers were all standing there and they started to cry from the excitement. After thousands of years, the Jews were finally once again able to touch these walls and to kiss these stones!
Some of the soldiers noticed that there was a secular soldier there, one who never learned what it means to be a Jew, and he too was crying bitterly. Curious, one of the observant soldiers walked over to him and asked, 
"I know that I'm crying because I learned about this, but why are you crying?"
"I'm crying because I don't even know why to cry. That really hurts me," he replied.
Now, during the three weeks, the Rebbe encouraged us to use this opportune time to learn about the Holy Temple - so we can find out why we need a Temple anyway, why we should be crying for Moshiach, and why every moment that goes by without it is an unimaginable loss.  

55. And the Living Should Take to Heart

It's hard to believe a full year has passed
I didn't expect it would happen so fast
Nothing seemed to change, Moshiach still hasn't come 
But we need ensure this Yartzeit's the last one 

Time has its way of making us forget
We tried for a while and then we somehow let
Ourselves get discouraged and even upset 
But we can't let him down or relax just yet 

It's so hard to be stubborn and never give in
To all the other things calling our attention 
Not seeing the progress makes it a huge test
But we know Uncle Meir would never stop or rest 

Other things feel so much more in our control
So why hang onto the one thing that we don't know?
It's challenging to stay consistently focused
But we must cuz Moshiach is our only real purpose
 
It might not be a topic that's very popular 
Everything else seems so much easier 
It's embarrassing to talk so passionately
But he did it and that means that so can we

It's hard to believe what we don't see with our eyes
Even after all these years it will still come by surprise 
It's a real test to truly await him each day 
But when will be a better time than today?

And sometimes it's not even a question of faith
It's just that what's familiar somehow feels safe
We might not feel desperate or even desire
But Uncle Meir's memory is here to inspire 
 
BH HaShem is kind and Hashem is good 
So we get more comfortable than we should 
We start to forget that we don't belong here
But we don't want reminders to make us care

When things are scary, when things are tough 
We remembers that we really had enough 
We cry out for help cuz we need an escape 
But the point's to want Moshiach when all feels ok 

Instead our desire should come from inside
From the depth of our soul that tends to hide
That sees the truth and knows the master-plan 
But wishes the whole world would also understand 

That knows that it's the purpose of all our history 
That knows that this is our only destiny 
But that just can't wait for it to happen patiently
That feels that every extra moment is a tragedy

That knows that all the goodness we experience today 
Is not running away, that it's all here to stay
But that knows that it's all nothing compared to what will be
That the greatest pleasures await us, physically and spiritually 

I want to see Hashem revealed in full glory 
I want to watch the Rebbe's dance of victory 
I want to see the pride of all of our nation
But right now I also have another motivation 

I want to see Uncle Meir's last will come true  
I want it to be remembered in all that we do 
I want him to see his stubbornness was not in vain 
I want him to see there was really a gain 

והחי יתן אל לבו
Nows the time to take to heart
It's not the time to stop, it's the time to start
So that he will live on through each one of us
Till the moment very soon that he'll rise from the dust